Seducing Women – How and How Not To

Seducing women will take more than just you watching and learning from what you see in the movies.

It’s easier for women to seduce men than the other way around. Men are easily seduced by women especially when he has no wife to come home to.

But a woman, being an expert in the trade of seduction, knows how to defend herself from what she may think is a threat.

Some women may be open to the thought of being seduced but actively participating in the process is the last thing they would do unless you’re a movie star.

You may have tried a few techniques in seducing women. But if none of them have worked, there must be something wrong with your method.

Try to examine how you are sending the message.

It’s One-Way Traffic

As mentioned, women will entertain the thought of being seduced. But sometimes, in the process of being seduced, women will refuse to play an active role.

You, as a man, will need to be subtle about it and communicate with her in an indirect manner.

The moment it begins to look obvious that you are trying to seduce her, you immediately lose your chances and you may never get a second shot at it. Seducing women needs indirect interactions.

The right body language is most likely to send the right message across. Words will just make you sound like a pervert if you are not careful.

Remember that women love mystery.

They want to stay curious about your intentions and they think it is romantic to have doubts whether you are trying to seduce her or not.

As long as you are not directly communicating your intentions, a woman will continue to participate in your charade until that perfect moment where you finally get to do it.

Make Her Feel Comfortable

The most important thing that guys need to know in seducing women is that women are almost always ready to give in.

They just want to do it with someone that they are comfortable with.

Once you have made her comfortable being with you, it will be easier to take your chances and go on from there.

You can establish comfort by going out on dates, being close to each other and through seemingly harmless body contact and intimate gestures.

Let Her Come to Your Place

When you are going out on a date, you can have her meet you at your place then from there, go wherever you want.

This will make it easier for you to make her come back; she needs to get her car.

After your date, you can ask her to rest for a while and talk. Ask for a nightcap.

The trick to seducing women is to make her feel as if she’s already thinking that she wants to sleep with you.

Of course, she may also want the same thing but she just doesn’t want to make it obvious.

Hold Back a Little

When seducing women, you can’t just give her everything.

Stop chasing her and instead let her chase you.

If, for example, she wants to hold your hand, hold back a little and don’t do it right away.

It’s the same with kissing.

If you are kissing, be the first one to pull away.

This is teasing her and it will make her want some more.

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